When God created man in Genesis 1:28 He gave man THE BLESSING.
In order to redeem man God sent His son Jesus to pay the price for Adams actions and restore THE BLESSING. But since man has a choice he must decide to choose the way of THE BLESSING in order to activate it.
Jesus told us how to do this in Matthew 6:33:
If we praise God with our mouths, then turn around and complain about something someone did to us, is that imitating God? We are blessing one moment and cursing the next. By doing this we are cutting off THE BLESSING from working in our lives. The words we live by will either activate or block THE BLESSING. Matthew 12:36 warns us that we will be judged by every idle word that come out of our mouths. Therefore, we must put a watch over our mouths not to say anything against another.
When you see someone do something wrong, it is not your place to judge that person for what they did. When you do that you are effectively releasing curses from your mouth and that action blocks the blessing from working in your life. It is, however, your responsibility to bless that person. In doing so you release the power of God into their lives and in your own.
Instead of talking about that awful thing that person did, say instead: "Lord, I release the blessing into their lives to experience the Love of God and grow in the wisdom and understanding of the truth."
If someone cuts you off in traffic don't call them a jerk and reveal your own attitude. Instead say: "Lord, I bless that person and put a hedge of protection around them that they would not be hurt but come into the Peace of God working and living in their lives."
Don't criticize and degrade other people, especially children. Don't call them stupid, lazy, ignorant or worthless because these are of the curse. Instead bless them and call those things which are not as though they were. Tell them: "You are blessed of the Lord. You have the mind of Christ. You are greatly valued and love. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you."
These are just some of the ways we must separate ourselves from this world and live in the world God has for us. When we retrain ourselves to live this way we release THE BLESSING in our own lives and give God the freedom to work out His plan of an abundant life bringing spiritual, physical, financial and emotional healing.
Learn to walk in HIS ways and experience THE BLESSING.
Live in God's Peace.